Today over at SBTB (Smart Bitches, Trashy Books) there is a post and discussion about fairy tale romance novels with many comments and recommendations. Most of the novels are listed on SurLaLune, some as category romance, some as not. One commenter even gave a shout out to SurLaLune. (Thanks!) There are actually two primary sources of romance lists on SurLaLune, first the old list through 2007 found at Romance Novels and then the most up-to-date but with fewer specific fairy tale categories in the recent SurLaLune Bookstore updates. These are generated from my themed lists on Amazon and have titles more recent than 2007, at least for Cinderella, Snow White, Beauty and the Beast, Sleeping Beauty and Frog Prince.
Quite a few independently published books are listed, however, so you may want to check out the recommendations or make a few of your own.
Anyway, for the romance fans out there, you've probably already participated in the discussion, but here's a shout out in case you missed it.